January132013
Destroying the myth about Black Teens and Suicide






Facts about teenage suicide in the black community.

According to the American Association of Suicidology, firearms are the most dominant way for African-Americans, regardless of age or gender, to commit suicide-67 percent for males and 40 percent for females ages 15 to 24. African-Americans are also less likely to use drugs during a suicide attempt, and depression is more pronounced with African-Americans.
Warning signs of a suicidal person include threatening to hurt or kill him/herself, talking about hurting or killing him/herself, looking for ways to hurt him/herself by seeking weapons or medication, talking or writing about death, expressing hopelessness and/or experiencing rage, uncontrolled anger and seeking revenge.
But sometimes recognizing someone who is suicidal is not as simple as these red alerts.
Black Teens Get Depressed, Too
It’s also possible that there are simply more Black teens committing suicide than in the past. But what could be making more Black people end their lives? For some, the same reasons as White people, such as depression, social isolation and hopelessness.
According to the Centers for Disease Control, the most common reasons given for attempted suicides by teen suicide survivors were a conflict with a boyfriend or girlfriend, an argument with parents and school problems. And gay teens of all backgrounds have a much higher rate of suicide because they often feel conflicted about or ashamed of their sexuality.

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Facts about teenage suicide in the black community.


According to the American Association of Suicidology, firearms are the most dominant way for African-Americans, regardless of age or gender, to commit suicide-67 percent for males and 40 percent for females ages 15 to 24. African-Americans are also less likely to use drugs during a suicide attempt, and depression is more pronounced with African-Americans.

Warning signs of a suicidal person include threatening to hurt or kill him/herself, talking about hurting or killing him/herself, looking for ways to hurt him/herself by seeking weapons or medication, talking or writing about death, expressing hopelessness and/or experiencing rage, uncontrolled anger and seeking revenge.

But sometimes recognizing someone who is suicidal is not as simple as these red alerts.

Black Teens Get Depressed, Too

It’s also possible that there are simply more Black teens committing suicide than in the past. But what could be making more Black people end their lives? For some, the same reasons as White people, such as depression, social isolation and hopelessness.

According to the Centers for Disease Control, the most common reasons given for attempted suicides by teen suicide survivors were a conflict with a boyfriend or girlfriend, an argument with parents and school problems. And gay teens of all backgrounds have a much higher rate of suicide because they often feel conflicted about or ashamed of their sexuality.


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TEEN CUTTING
Self-injury is a negative way of dealing with strong emotions and can include cutting, scratching, burning, mutilating, hitting oneself, or anything else that causes bodily harm.According to CNN.com, one in five teens purposely injure themselves. Some view self-injury as trendy, but to parents and others, it can be frightening and frustrating. It is most common during adolescent and teenage years and it affect people of all sexes and backgrounds. According to the National Mental Health Association and S.A.F.E., alternatives report that those who seek help for self-injury, are more likely teenage girls from middle or upper class backgrounds.Teen self-injury, self-mutilation or cutting can be overcome, but the problems causing a teen to self-injure or self-mutilate, such as cutting, need to be resolved and the teen must learn healthier ways to deal with emotions. Some of thereasons teens give for self-injuring or self mutilating include: 
Not knowing how to deal with stress 
An unresolved history of abuse 
Low self esteem 
Feelings of loneliness or fear 
A need to feel in control 
Mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive disorder 
Wanting to get the attention of people who can help them 
Peer pressure/curiosity 

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TEEN CUTTING

Self-injury is a negative way of dealing with strong emotions and can include cutting, scratching, burning, mutilating, hitting oneself, or anything else that causes bodily harm.

According to CNN.com, one in five teens purposely injure themselves. Some view self-injury as trendy, but to parents and others, it can be frightening and frustrating. It is most common during adolescent and teenage years and it affect people of all sexes and backgrounds. According to the National Mental Health Association and S.A.F.E., alternatives report that those who seek help for self-injury, are more likely teenage girls from middle or upper class backgrounds.

Teen self-injury, self-mutilation or cutting can be overcome
, but the problems causing a teen to self-injure or self-mutilate, such as cutting, need to be resolved and the teen must learn healthier ways to deal with emotions. Some of thereasons teens give for self-injuring or self mutilating include:
 

  • Not knowing how to deal with stress 
  • An unresolved history of abuse 
  • Low self esteem 
  • Feelings of loneliness or fear 
  • A need to feel in control 
  • Mental health problems such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive disorder 
  • Wanting to get the attention of people who can help them 
  • Peer pressure/curiosity 
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WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE
It is important to be on the look out for signs that your teen may attempt suicide.What is so difficult about some of these warning signs of teen suicide is that some of them are similar to normal adolescent behavior. Parents should recognize the issues that can trigger feeling of teen depression leading to suicidal thoughts and feeling.The teenage years are a trying time, and sometimes normal behavior looks a lot like possibly destructive behavior. But it doesn’t hurt to look into the following warning signs of teen suicide:
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WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE

It is important to be on the look out for signs that your teen may attempt suicide.

What is so difficult about some of these warning signs of teen suicide is that some of them are similar to normal adolescent behavior. Parents should recognize the issues that can trigger feeling of teen depression leading to suicidal thoughts and feeling.

The teenage years are a trying time, and sometimes normal behavior looks a lot like possibly destructive behavior. But it doesn’t hurt to look into the following warning signs of teen suicide:

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By SYDNEY LUPKIN for abc news
Aspiring rapper Ervin McKinness tweeted about driving drunk at 120 mph minutes before dying in a one-car crash that killed him and four others.
When 21-year-old rap artist Ervin McKinness died in a car accident this fall, his fans were quick to notice one final message from his Twitter account: “Drunk af going 120 drifting corners #F***It YOLO.”
Less than an hour later, the driver of the car ran a red light, lost control and slammed into a wall, according to Ontario, Calif. police. Four passengers were pronounced dead at the scene. A fifth died at the hospital.
“What is YOLO?” was among the top searches in the United States this year, according to Google, but Twitter users certainly know what it is. It stands for You Only Live Once. According to Topsy, a Twitter analytics company, about 36.6 million tweets have included the YOLO acronym since it first appeared in October 2011 — and a good percentage of them involved young people doing something dangerous or risky.
“There’s something about the way the teenage brain functions that may tend to make poor decisions when other people are present,” said child psychologist Dr. Mary Romano, who works at Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tenn. “Tie that into social media and even when you’re alone, it almost artificially creates the presence of an audience because you sort of assume your actions are on display.”
Over roughly three hours one morning last week, 34 people tweeted about the prior night’s drunken antics with the YOLO acronym, an ABC News search found. A handful of YOLO-ers asked whether it was too early in the day to start drinking. Another 10 woke up that morning and tweeted that they didn’t study for tests they had to take. Their tweets all included YOLO, or, as a Twitter hashtag, #YOLO.
“It was probably the most popular phrase on Twitter, I think,” said Jamie de Guerre, the vice president of product at Topsy. He said Twitter users tweeted the #YOLO hashtag 388,000 times a day at the peak of its popularity in March. It’s still used tens of thousands of times a day
Since the YOLO trend began, about 408,000 YOLO-tagged tweets had something to do with “texting while driving,” according to Topsy.
Trumpeting dangerous behavior is part-biological, part-environmental, Romano said.
Romano said the part of the brain called the prefrontal cortex, which is involved in reasoning and planning, doesn’t fully develop until someone is about 25 years old. And while the reasoning part of the brain is undeveloped, the thrill-seeking part of the brain thrives.
“In terms of why teens make risky decisions, there’s biological evidence,” Romano said.
A 2010 study showed that teens were more likely to make poor driving decisions when they were in cars with other teens, proving what mom, dad and insurance companies have known for years, Romano said. And the near-constant connectedness that comes with Twitter, which many users have installed on their phones, means that teens are rarely alone anymore.
No one has researched whether Twitter causes risky behavior, so it’s not possible to conclude that YOLO has actually contributed to risk-taking, said anthropologist Jordan Kraemer, who recently earned her doctorate from the University of California, Irvine.
“Generally, social media provides a new venue for actions that are often the same kinds of actions both young people and adults are already engaging in,” Kraemer said.”It’s hard to know if what we’re seeing online is causing new or more risky behavior or if we’re just seeing it more because it’s more visible.”

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By SYDNEY LUPKIN for abc news

Aspiring rapper Ervin McKinness tweeted about driving drunk at 120 mph minutes before dying in a one-car crash that killed him and four others.

When 21-year-old rap artist Ervin McKinness died in a car accident this fall, his fans were quick to notice one final message from his Twitter account: “Drunk af going 120 drifting corners #F***It YOLO.”

Less than an hour later, the driver of the car ran a red light, lost control and slammed into a wall, according to Ontario, Calif. police. Four passengers were pronounced dead at the scene. A fifth died at the hospital.

“What is YOLO?” was among the top searches in the United States this year, according to Google, but Twitter users certainly know what it is. It stands for You Only Live Once. According to Topsy, a Twitter analytics company, about 36.6 million tweets have included the YOLO acronym since it first appeared in October 2011 — and a good percentage of them involved young people doing something dangerous or risky.

“There’s something about the way the teenage brain functions that may tend to make poor decisions when other people are present,” said child psychologist Dr. Mary Romano, who works at Monroe Carell Jr. Children’s Hospital at Vanderbilt University in Nashville, Tenn. “Tie that into social media and even when you’re alone, it almost artificially creates the presence of an audience because you sort of assume your actions are on display.”

Over roughly three hours one morning last week, 34 people tweeted about the prior night’s drunken antics with the YOLO acronym, an ABC News search found. A handful of YOLO-ers asked whether it was too early in the day to start drinking. Another 10 woke up that morning and tweeted that they didn’t study for tests they had to take. Their tweets all included YOLO, or, as a Twitter hashtag, #YOLO.

“It was probably the most popular phrase on Twitter, I think,” said Jamie de Guerre, the vice president of product at Topsy. He said Twitter users tweeted the #YOLO hashtag 388,000 times a day at the peak of its popularity in March. It’s still used tens of thousands of times a day

Since the YOLO trend began, about 408,000 YOLO-tagged tweets had something to do with “texting while driving,” according to Topsy.

Trumpeting dangerous behavior is part-biological, part-environmental, Romano said.

Romano said the part of the brain called the prefrontal cortex, which is involved in reasoning and planning, doesn’t fully develop until someone is about 25 years old. And while the reasoning part of the brain is undeveloped, the thrill-seeking part of the brain thrives.

“In terms of why teens make risky decisions, there’s biological evidence,” Romano said.

A 2010 study showed that teens were more likely to make poor driving decisions when they were in cars with other teens, proving what mom, dad and insurance companies have known for years, Romano said. And the near-constant connectedness that comes with Twitter, which many users have installed on their phones, means that teens are rarely alone anymore.

No one has researched whether Twitter causes risky behavior, so it’s not possible to conclude that YOLO has actually contributed to risk-taking, said anthropologist Jordan Kraemer, who recently earned her doctorate from the University of California, Irvine.

“Generally, social media provides a new venue for actions that are often the same kinds of actions both young people and adults are already engaging in,” Kraemer said.”It’s hard to know if what we’re seeing online is causing new or more risky behavior or if we’re just seeing it more because it’s more visible.”

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December132012
WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE
What is so difficult about some of these warning signs of teen suicide is that some of them are similar to normal adolescent behavior. Parents should recognize the issues that can trigger feeling of teen depression leading to suicidal thoughts and feeling.

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WARNING SIGNS FOR SUICIDE

What is so difficult about some of these warning signs of teen suicide is that some of them are similar to normal adolescent behavior. Parents should recognize the issues that can trigger feeling of teen depression leading to suicidal thoughts and feeling.


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                                       Backpack Bullies
 Lack of safety is one of the top concerns of young people, and bullying is a real and constant threat. A child’s emotional development is just as important, if not  more  so, than academic development. In fact, a safe, healthy emotional environment is essential to academic growth and success.

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                                       Backpack Bullies

 Lack of safety is one of the top concerns of young people, and bullying is a real and constant threat. A child’s emotional development is just as important, if not  more  so, than academic development. In fact, a safe, healthy emotional environment is essential to academic growth and success.

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Teenage Depression: About 5% of children and adolescents in the general population suffer from depression at any given time. Children under stress, who experience loss, or who have learning, conduct or anxiety disorders are at a higher risk for depression. Depression also tends to run in families. Early diagnosis and treatment are essential for depressed children. For help, parents should ask their physician to refer them to a qualified mental health professional. Be prepared to give your doctor specific information about your teen’s depression symptoms, including how long they’ve been present, how much they’re affecting your child’s daily life, and any patterns you’ve noticed.Depression is an illness with many causes and many forms. It is a disorder of someone’s moods or emotions; it is not an attitude that someone can “control” or “snap out of,” but it is treatable with counseling and/or medication.

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Teenage Depression: About 5% of children and adolescents in the general population suffer from depression at any given time. Children under stress, who experience loss, or who have learning, conduct or anxiety disorders are at a higher risk for depression. Depression also tends to run in families. Early diagnosis and treatment are essential for depressed children. For help, parents should ask their physician to refer them to a qualified mental health professional. Be prepared to give your doctor specific information about your teen’s depression symptoms, including how long they’ve been present, how much they’re affecting your child’s daily life, and any patterns you’ve noticed.Depression is an illness with many causes and many forms. It is a disorder of someone’s moods or emotions; it is not an attitude that someone can “control” or “snap out of,” but it is treatable with counseling and/or medication.

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Teenage Depression: About 5% of children and adolescents in the general population suffer from depression at any given time. Children under stress, who experience loss, or who have learning, conduct or anxiety disorders are at a higher risk for depression. Depression also tends to run in families. Early diagnosis and treatment are essential for depressed children. For help, parents should ask their physician to refer them to a qualified mental health professional. Be prepared to give your doctor specific information about your teen’s depression symptoms, including how long they’ve been present, how much they’re affecting your child’s daily life, and any patterns you’ve noticed.Depression is an illness with many causes and many forms. It is a disorder of someone’s moods or emotions; it is not an attitude that someone can “control” or “snap out of,” but it is treatable with counseling and/or medication.

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Teenage Depression: About 5% of children and adolescents in the general population suffer from depression at any given time. Children under stress, who experience loss, or who have learning, conduct or anxiety disorders are at a higher risk for depression. Depression also tends to run in families. Early diagnosis and treatment are essential for depressed children. For help, parents should ask their physician to refer them to a qualified mental health professional. Be prepared to give your doctor specific information about your teen’s depression symptoms, including how long they’ve been present, how much they’re affecting your child’s daily life, and any patterns you’ve noticed.Depression is an illness with many causes and many forms. It is a disorder of someone’s moods or emotions; it is not an attitude that someone can “control” or “snap out of,” but it is treatable with counseling and/or medication.

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